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Chorate Chamber Choir Concert in Aid of RFA

15/12/2024

 
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On Saturday December 7th in St Luke's Church in Erleigh Road, Reading, the Chorate Chamber Choir held a concert in aid of Reading Family Aid and St Luke's. The theme of the evening was "Replayed and reworked melodies .... and seasonal songs by composers old and new."

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The music was outstanding with their beautiful voices filling the Church. 

​If you would like to listen to a recording of the concert you can do so here.

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Ruth Perkins, Reading Family Aid's Fundraising Manager, spoke about the charity - and definitely did not sing!

​Thanks to everyone that donated and an amazing £800 was raised, of which Reading Family Aid received half.
And thanks to Chorate for choosing us!

Toys and Teens 2024 is complete!

15/12/2024

 
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The Reading Family Aid Toys and Teens Appeal has once again been a huge success with tens of thousands of toys and gifts donated to the appeal by the people of Reading and the surrounding area. This has allowed us to donate a very good selection of presents to 2,509 children living in this area who would otherwise be unlikely to receive anything on Christmas morning.  Huge thanks to everyone who got involved through donations, volunteering, being a donation point, organising a collection or in any other way.

The appeal was launched by Reading's Mayor, Cllr Glen Dennis back in mid-October. The Mayor said "I am so pleased to be launching the incredibly important Toys and Teens Appeal this year. The appeal supports children from really poor backgrounds whose families don’t have the means to provide them with a present at Christmas. The appeal steps in and fills that gap.” He added, “People aren’t going to advertise to you that they are really struggling. They have pride. But as a Councillor, I am in contact with families who are so poor, they won’t be able to afford any presents this Christmas. Please support the appeal by donating gifts at any of the donation points in Reading. Thank you.”
One of last year's recipients said "Christmas is a hard time for me. I dread it. I feel like I can't give my children what I want to give them and what they deserve. Most people look forward to Christmas, but for me, it’s a reminder of what my children miss out on.”
Donations
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Each week of the Appeal, we are grateful to the Reading Chronicle for printing our stories and pictures, together with the list of  Donation Points

PictureStaff at Mapledurham Golf and Health club with some of the donations
Members of the public donated at our 33 public donation points that were scattered all over the Reading area.

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L to R RFA Fundraising Mgr, Ruth Perkins, Berkshire Freemasons Charity Steward, Mickey Labana, RFA Chair, Wendy Howell, Gift Buyer for the Freemasons, Diane Stone, Deputy Leader of Berkshire Freemasons, Mark Heppelthwaite and in the front RFA Toys & Teens Project Mgr, Laura Windisch
Berkshire Freemasons asked their members to donate to the appeal and they raised an astonishing £6,000 with which they bought gifts mainly for the older children which they brought to the hall at the start of the week.
PictureRoc Search with their giant collection. L to R Richard Larkin & Frank Perkins (RFA VanMen), Nathan Fenton & Conor Roughneen (Roc Search), Julie Parsons (RFA VanWoman), Trevor Doran, Luke Coggins and Yasmin Thomas (RocSearch)
Businesses got involved and asked their employees to donate to their in-house collection.

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Collection from Hewlett Packard's staff and clients at a lunch organised on behalf of Hewlett Packard by Ball Associates

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Santa accepting donations at P&G
PictureHelping to load the donations at St. Andrews, Pangebourne
  

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Children from Leighton Park School who organised a collection
Many schools asked their pupils to bring in items that they had finished playing with that were still in very good condition.
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St Andrew's Church, Caversham tea party where participants raised £1200 for RFA and donated toys.
And several churches held Toy Services or other events asking members of their congregation to bring in a gift.
People have donated £3,270 on our GoFundMe and we received many other donations via our LocalGiving Site and even some in cash!
It isn't too late to donate - anything received now will go towards next year's Appeal or to one of our Outings in 2025.
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We did go shopping too and purchased vouchers for the teenagers and gifts for teenagers and the under 3's. Smyths Toys kindly gave us a generous discount on items purchased from them.

The Recipients
We worked with schools, places of worship, social workers, health visitors and other charities in the area to identify families that met our criteria. These families will receive a sackful of gifts for their children.
Have a look at this video put together by Nathan from Rocsearch. Ruth from RFA explains why the Appeal is so important.
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As Laura, our Toy Project Manager said: "While our motto is 'Putting smiles on children's faces', our charity is Reading Family Aid and we do help the whole family. It takes a huge weight from the parents' shoulders and allows them the joy of being able to give their children some gifts on Christmas morning.". 
​Last year one little person told her parish nurse, "I woke on Christmas day and Father Christmas came. I got presents in a sack which I knew came from Father Christmas, as my mummy had told me she couldn’t get us any this year.”

Collecting, Sorting, Packing and Delivering
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On Saturday December 7th, our volunteer Van Men and Women collected three vans generously donated by Caversham Vehicle Hire and started the process of collecting tables donated from various church halls and organisations including 89th Scouts Group, St Anne's Church in Caversham, St Barnabas Church in Emmer Green, Caversham Hall and St Luke's Church in Reading. During the week they, with the help of various committee members and our Supporter Jan, went to all the 27 Donation Points around town, 34 businesses and churches and 20 schools.  They also delivered the 1178 packed sacks and between the collections and deliveries drove for about 500 miles around Reading

PictureToby (L) and Karl (R) from Big Yellow
Some of the donation points had so many donations that we had to do interim collections during the week's leading up to the end of the Appeal. These were taken by committee members to Big Yellow Self Storage who donate a room for us.

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The the work of checking, sorting and packing up all the donations begins. This is all done with the help of an army of 105 volunteers, many from various businesses in the town, as well as individuals, some of whom have been coming for many years.

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Every item is checked to make sure it is clean, complete, working, legal and if it needs batteries, all under the supervision of Sallie who has been in this role for more years than she can remember!
​If it passes all the tests and, if needed, has batteries included or attached, it is placed on the tables that correspond to the item's age suitability. Tens of thousands of items and every single one checked for suitability.

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The Mayor chooses some books for a sack with the help of RFAToys and Teens Project Mgr, Laura.
PictureJohn Sykes from the John Sykes Foundation who donated £1,000 for gifts for the older children along with his daughter Annabelle who is also a trustee of the foundation and son John who packed a couple of sacks for us.
 Then other volunteers start to pack black sacks. Each sack will contain 4-6 items for each of three children. If we have plenty of items for a particular age group, then we provide additional sacks. 

PictureKaren Bridges, moving the packed sacks to the van for distribution.
The sacks are then sorted for each requesting organisation and loaded onto a van for distribution.

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Karen Bridges, David Tann and Chris Rogers, some of this year's volunteer Van Men and Women.
Taking a Break
It is hard physical and mental work with much lifting, carrying and decision making! Everyone is sustained with drinks, cakes and biscuits and sandwiches for lunch - and a good natter!
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Celia from RFA explaining everything to some of the volunteers while others take a well earned rest while eating their lunch.
The Numbers
Last year about 90% of the donations were for the 0-9 years age range and yet almost 50% of the children were in the 10-16 age range. This meant we had to do a lot of last minute shopping!
This year we had a real push on our publicity and stressed the importance of items for the older children and, together with gifts and vouchers that we had purchased with the monetary donations, we just about had sufficient.
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It is interesting how the age profile of the children is changing.
In 2017 74% of the children were under 10 and 26% were 10 and over. 
 
While the number of children has more than doubled since 2017, t
his year, 53% were under 10 and 47% were 10 and over.
​In 2017 22% were in the 0-2 age range and this year only 8%. Are people not having so many children?

And finally a Massive Thankyou!
Huge thanks to everyone that made it possible to put smiles on 2,509 children's faces this Christmas:
  • all those that donated gifts and money
  • all the businesses, libraries, community centres and schools that offered to be public donation points
  • all the businesses, places of worship, schools and other organisations that organised in-house collections
  • all those that volunteered to help in the hall and in the vans and especially Jan who does interim collections and stored a whole van full of gifts in her house! 
  • all the companies that gave some of their staff a day off to help.
  • all the organisations that loaned us tables
  • and lastly but by no means least, all of our main sponsors whose ongoing support make all this possible:
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who give us a full page each week of the Appeal where you can read our stories and get a full list of the donation points
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who give us free use of several of their vans for the week so we can collect all the donations and deliver the packed sacks
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who give us a free room so that we can store the early donations
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who generously donated £6,000 worth of toys and gifts this year.
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who have donated a large amount of money that we can use to buy toys, gifts and essential supplies to run the Project, printed the Donation Point posters and sent some volunteers to help in the hall.
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who have donated a large amount of money that we can use to buy toys, gifts and essential supplies to run the Project as well as providing volunteers in the hall.
Thanks to all of you and we'll do it all again next year!

Key Dates for 2025:
Appeal Launch Date: Thursday 23rd October .
​Last day for donations: Saturday December 6th.
Next year's Sorting and Packing Week: Sunday December 7th to Friday December 12th

The Reading Family Aid Toys and Teens Appeal: A HUGE Thank You to Our Supporters

11/12/2024

 
The Reading Family Aid Toys and Teens Appeal 2024 has officially wrapped up for this year, and what an incredible success it has been! Sponsored by The Chronicle, the annual appeal calls on sponsors and supporters to donate new or nearly new toys for underprivileged children in Reading and the surrounding areas, ensuring they experience the joy of Christmas.
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This year, over 2,400 children will benefit from these generous donations, guaranteeing that every one of them receives a special gift this holiday season. The charity is currently hard at work packing the donated toys into age-appropriate sacks in preparation for distribution. Starting next week, the charity’s gift vans will make their rounds across the area, visiting neighbourhoods from Whitley to Caversham, and Woodley to Winnersh, spreading cheer and smiles to children and their families.
PictureAldryngton School toy collection

​One local school, which supports children who benefit from these gifts, expressed their gratitude: "We had toys from you last year and you were so generous and kind, and the parents were thrilled to bits. It really made a difference."

PictureLaura Windisch (R) Head of our Toys Appeal
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​Laura Windisch,
Head of the Toys and Teens Appeal, shared her excitement: "We at Reading Family Aid are really looking forward to the completion of this year's Appeal and putting smiles on the faces of disadvantaged children. The people of Reading (and beyond) have been so generous, and we are already hearing how the donated toys and presents are going to make such a huge difference to so many families. To everyone who has donated a gift - THANK YOU. We couldn't do this without you. You are making a real contribution to the sum total of happiness in our town!"

PictureLeighton Park School children who arranged a donation collection

​​Reading Family Aid would like to extend special thanks to their incredible sponsors — Big Yellow, Caversham Vehicle Hire, The Freemasons, P&G, and Trust ID — whose ongoing support makes this appeal possible. Every single donation has a profound impact, ensuring that children across the community can experience the magic of Christmas. To everyone who contributed, thank you for your generosity and support.

Here’s to a festive season filled with joy, kindness, and giving! 🎄

The Reading Family Aid Toys and Teens Appeal: Last Chance to Share Christmas Joy with Local Families in Need

4/12/2024

 
The Reading Family Aid Toys and Teens Appeal 2024 is now in its penultimate week, and we’re calling on the generosity of Reading residents to help make this Christmas special for local children and teens in need. Sponsored by The Chronicle, this heartwarming appeal seeks donations of new or nearly new gifts for children and teenagers who may otherwise not receive a single present this holiday season.

​Jill Anders, Parish Nurse for Reading Gateway Church, works in South Reading with families in need. After the appeal last year she said, “It was a joy to provide presents for the children who otherwise wouldn’t receive anything at Christmas … One little person said to me.. “I woke on Christmas day and Father Christmas came. I got presents in a sack which I knew came from Father Christmas, as my mummy had told me she couldn’t get us any this year”… The tears of gratitude from parents who had no idea how they would manage…. The squeals of delight sent to me over voice message, as the children were opening their presents… The Toys and Teens Appeal will provide presents for 21 children and teens this year whom I support. These children and young people would not receive anything if it wasn’t for the generosity of those that give so freely to this amazing charity, which brings just so much joy to those who so desperately need it”.
PictureChildren from St Andrew's donating toys from their collection
Last year, over 2,500 children received gifts as a result of this appeal, and this year, the same number have been registered as being in need of a present. To meet this demand, the appeal is asking for help from individuals, schools, businesses, and organisations across Reading. If you would like to arrange a collection, Reading Family Aid would be incredibly grateful for any donations. All gifts must be received by 7th December, after which they will be packed into sacks and distributed to children throughout Reading and the surrounding areas.

​One longstanding supporter of the appeal is St Andrew’s School, Pangbourne. Will Carter, Head of Juniors, expressed his school’s commitment: “It is our pleasure to support Reading Family Aid’s toy appeal at St Andrew’s. Being able to play even the smallest part in helping to make a child’s Christmas that bit more special is a great privilege. We look forward to continuing to work alongside the RFA team for years to come”. 

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Donations of new or nearly new toys can be dropped off at designated collection points throughout Reading. These gifts will go directly to children referred by social workers, charities, schools, and places of worship that work with families in need.

Every donation makes a difference. Whether it's an artistic gift set, an exciting board game, or an engaging book, each present has the potential to create lasting memories and bring hope. If you're unsure what to buy, the charity’s wishlist is a great place to start, or you can donate directly to the Go Fund Me page.

A challenge the appeal faced last year was a shortage of gifts for teenagers aged 13 and over. This age group is often overlooked during the holiday season. The appeal asks supporters to consider donating items such as board games, makeup kits, art sets, or gift cards to ensure that teenagers are included and feel valued this Christmas.

This holiday season, your generosity is vital to helping the appeal in its aim that no child wakes up without a present on Christmas morning. For more information on donation points or how you can help, please visit the website or follow on social media.

Let’s work together to make this Christmas unforgettable!

​Thank you so much for your support!



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